Ask The Rabbi 
23 January 1999
Issue #223
Parshat Bo
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This Issue Contains: 
1. Diet Kosher		5. Three Times Dry
2. Gold Star		6. Yiddle Riddle
3. Eden for Yidden	7. Public Domain
4. Burying and Swearing 
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____Diet Kosher____

Joshua Kaplan <jkaplan@rics.bwh.harvard.edu> wrote:

Dear Rabbi,

As a doctor I run into an issue similar to the one raised by a recent 
questioner.  I treat many patients who are Jewish but do not keep kosher, 
and I have to order diets for them.  I try to avoid the problem by never 
asking what a patient's religion is, but if I know a patient is Jewish, am 
I not halachically obligated to order a kosher diet for them, even if they 
don't want one?  Thanks.

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Dear Dr. Joshua Kaplan,

	It's prohibited to be the direct cause of a sin, because of the 
Torah's prohibition against "placing a stumbling block before the blind."  
Therefore, you are not allowed to provide a Jew, even a non-observant Jew, 
with non-kosher food.

	Your case, however, isn't a case of causing a Jew to sin, as you 
aren't providing the food.  Rather, your case might involve the Rabbinic 
prohibition of encouraging or assisting a sin; if the diet you suggest 
contains several choices of foods, some kosher and some not, this reduces 
the level of your assisting in sin.

	I asked your question to Rabbi Moshe Shternbuch, shlita, of the 
Jerusalem Beth Din.  He said that it would be sufficient to write on the 
diet plan something like this:  "Those interested in observing the Jewish 
dietary laws (kashrut) should consult with me and their Rabbi regarding 
this diet."

Sources:

* Leviticus 19:14
* Tractate Avodah Zarah 6b


____Gold Star____

Kevin Woodhouse from New Zealand <shalom@ihug.co.nz>wrote:

Dear Rabbi,

I have a couple of gold nuggets.  I want to take one of them to the 
jeweller and have him make me a Magen David (Star or Shield of David).  The 
question is, can I have inscribed upon it the Shema Yisrael prayer?

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Dear Kevin Woodhouse,

	If you have the Shema Yisrael engraved on your Magen David it will be 
forbidden to take it into an unclean place (e.g., bathroom).  If you want 
to have something engraved on it, why not your Hebrew name (in English 
letters)?


____Eden for Yidden____

Igor Doon from Moscow, Russia <igordoon@mtu-net.ru> wrote:

Dear Rabbi,

I am a Jew in Russia and I have one question for you that has interested me 
for a long time.  What happens with a Jew after death?  I know a non-Jewish 
concept about hell and heaven, but I know that such concept doesn't exist 
in Jewish tradition.  Please explain me the point of view, that Jewish 
tradition provides.  Thank you beforehand.

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Dear Igor Doon,

	Jews believe in life after death.  We call it the World to Come.  
Gehinom -- a purification process -- is part of the World to Come.  When a 
person dies, his soul gets a chance to "think objectively" about his 
lifetime spent on earth.  Depending on how the person spent his life, this 
can be a painful process in which the soul mourns its bad deeds, lost 
opportunities and wasted potential.
Ultimately, the gehinom process is temporary, and eventually enables the 
person to enjoy the benefits of all the good things he did during his 
lifetime.

	Nevertheless, Judaism emphasizes life in this world.  Here's a 
parable to explain:  A wealthy man goes on a cruise ship.  The ship sinks, 
and he finds himself afloat in a tiny rubber raft.  This raft is his only 
hope of arriving safely to his family, his mansion and all his wealth.  
Judaism looks at this world like a raft.  By following the survival manual 
-- the Torah -- this little raft can bring us safely to the World to Come.

Sources:

* Mishna Eduyot 2:10
* The Aryeh Kaplan Reader p. 179 citing Sefer Ha'ikkrim 4:33


____Burying and Swearing____

Alana Jacob from Silver Spring, MD <alanzo@juno.com> wrote:

Dear Rabbi,

In Parshat Vayechi, why does Yaakov make Yosef swear to bury him in Eretz 
Yisrael (the Land of Israel)?  It seems a little extreme to make him swear.  
Shouldn't Yaakov have just believed Yosef and trusted him?

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Dear Alana Jacob,

	Yaakov trusted Yosef.  But he didn't trust  Pharaoh.  Yaakov was 
concerned that unless Yosef made an oath, Pharaoh would not allow Yaakov's 
body to leave Egypt.

	Rabbi Eliyahu Munk explains why it was so important that Yaakov not 
be buried, even temporarily, in Egypt.  Yaakov wanted to establish the fact 
that the Land of Israel should be the focal point of the Jewish People.  
Merely asking Yosef would not have had the same impact as to the importance 
of the message for all future generations. Thus, he asked Yosef to take an 
oath.


____Three Times Dry_____

Victor Rodriguez from Thornhill, Ontario <yaakov@cpol.com> wrote:

Dear Rabbi,

From the Artscroll Gemara, book Tractate Shabbat, I would like to ask you 
the following question:   On page 108b and under Rashi's comments #46 it 
says "An evil spirit called bat melech rests on the hands in the morning."  
Where does this spirit come from?  Why the name `princess' and not any 
other name?  Why do the hands need to be washed three times each, and not 
two or four times for that matter?

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Dear Victor Rodriguez,

	"Bat melech" or Princess is the name of a certain "evil spirit," a 
type of spiritual impurity, which rests on a person's hands in the morning.  
The name "bat melech" connotes some sort of prominence this spirit enjoys 
among other spirits.

	This impurity rests on a person during sleep because the person is as 
if dead, not moving or performing mitzvot with the accomplishing tools, the 
hands.  Thus, when we wake in the morning, we remove this impurity by 
pouring water over our hands three times.  Water symbolizes Torah, and the 
number three symbolizes the three aspects of Torah -- Torah, Nevi'im and 
Ketuvim (The Pentateuch, the Prophets, and the Writings).  Torah study has 
the power to fend off any impurity, as it causes you to meditate on G-d's 
omnipotence and helps you to understand that the "spirit" has no power of 
its own if not for the will of G-d.

Sources:

* Aruch, Bat Chorin

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Yiddle Riddle

	One Friday eve recently, I said the first paragraph of Shema five 
times, and each time it was for a different reason.  How did this occur?

* Riddle Submitted by Benjie Gerstman, Jerusalem 
<gerstbpg@netvision.net.il>

Answer next week...

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The Public Domain
Comments, quibbles, and reactions 
concerning previous "Ask-the-Rabbi" features

Re:  Deluge of Email:

	I cannot believe the deluge of email I've been getting since you 
published my riddle.  I even met (in cyberspace) a member of my extended 
family who recently became frum and lives far away.  Keep up the good work.

* Zvi Freund<miltonf@villagenet.com>

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Re:  Tribal Lineage (Ask #220):

	In a recent "Ask the Rabbi" Gabriella asked:  "My real mom's last 
name was Levin.  What tribe would I be from?"  I think it would have been 
noteworthy to mention that her tribe is determined by her paternal lineage.

* Rabbi Chaim Y. Schreiner <bcys@netvision.net.il>

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Re:  Why the Talmud Starts on Page Two (Ask #219):

	Ever noticed how each tractate assumes that you have already learned 
all of the other tractates?  I remarked once to Dr. Gershon Miles, head of 
the Technology Management & Marketing department of the Jerusalem College 
of Technology, that I like to study in an orderly fashion, rather than just 
jumping into the middle of things.  Dr. Miles suggested (tongue-in-cheek) 
that the reason each tractate starts with page two is that in Talmud, it 
doesn't matter where you start, you've jumped into the middle.
Haim (Howard) Roman, Jerusalem College of Technology 

* <roman@beitza.jct.ac.il>


	The reason I learned in Yeshiva was that "derech eretz kadma l'Torah" 
-- before you learn Torah you must first learn derech eretz -- proper 
interpersonal relations.  That's the first page.

* Dovid Papoff, Toronto <dpapoff@canada.com>

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Re:  "Seasons of the Moon" (Tevet 5759):

	I read your publication "Seasons of the Moon" by Rabbi Yaakov Asher 
Sinclair.  I loved every word, it was inspiring and captivating.  What a 
wonderful gift that Hashem gave him.  I enjoyed reading it so much.
 Danny Freedman Johannesburg, South Africa<dfreedman13@hotmail.com>

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Re:  Simcha's Torah Stories:

	This is so lovely to get your "Simcha's Torah Stories." I have not 
seen something so perfect for kids, and how healthy and easy they are.  The 
article about smiling is so good for everyone.  We kids smile more than the 
big people, maybe they should learn from us.  Keep up the great work.  I 
know a lot of kids here, and this way every kid can get into your stories, 
and learn thru enjoying and not get bored.  Shalom.  PS:Every one calls me 
by the name Bli'neder -- in Hebrew it means "without a promise" or 
something like that -- because I say it all the time.

* Bli'neder from Miami, Florida <Blineder@aol.com>


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