Parashat Vayetzei
PARSHA OVERVIEW
Fleeing from Esav, Yaakov leaves Be’er Sheva and sets out for Charan, the home of his mother’s family. After a 14-year stint in the Torah Academy of Shem and Ever, Yaakov resumes his journey and comes to Mount Moriah, the place where his father Yitzchak was brought as an offering, and the future site of the Beit Hamikdash. He sleeps there and dreams of angels going up and down a ladder between Heaven and earth.
Yaakov commits himself to work another seven years in order to marry Rachel as well. Leah bears four sons: Reuven, Shimon, Levi and Yehuda, the first Tribes of Israel. Rachel is barren and, in an attempt to give Yaakov children, she gives her handmaiden Bilhah to Yaakov as a wife. Bilhah bears Dan and Naftali. Leah, too, gives Yaakov her handmaiden, Zilpah, who bears Gad and Asher. Leah then bears Yissachar, Zevulun, and a daughter, Dina.
Yaakov decides to leave Lavan, but Lavan, aware of the wealth Yaakov has made for him, is reluctant to let him go, and concludes a contract of employment with him. Lavan tries to swindle Yaakov, but Yaakov becomes extremely wealthy. After six years, aware that Lavan has become dangerously resentful of his wealth, Yaakov flees with his family and all his possessions. Lavan pursues but is warned by
PARSHA INSIGHTS
Finding in the Dark
“And he encountered the place…” (28:11)
In Parshat Vayetze, Yaakov Avinu leaves the holiness and security of his father Yitzchak’s home and steps out into the uncertainty of exile; alone, without possessions, without protection.
The Torah says, “Vayifga bamakom – and he encountered the place.” Chazal teach that this word vayifga implies prayer — an encounter not by arrangement, a chance encounter so to speak. Yaakov does not plan to find Hashem; it’s as though he stumbles upon the Divine.
This is the essence of galut — of exile. In that darkness, when the familiar secure structures of holiness fall away and we don’t “see” Hashem through the clear light of prophecy or miracles. Instead, we stumble upon Him — in the loneliness, in the confusion, in the pain. It is precisely there, in the hiddenness, that the deepest revelation awaits us.
For a pillow, Yaakov takes stones — separate and unyielding. Yet by morning, they have become one stone. From the fragmented world of exile emerges unity. This merging of the stones represents the inner work of the Jewish People in exile: to gather the scattered sparks of holiness and reveal, in a world that appears unreparable, beyond fixing - the oneness of the Creator.
And Yaakov dreams: “Sulam mutzav artza…A ladder standing on the earth with its top reaching heaven.” On this ladder there are Angels ascending and descending. Heaven and earth — two opposites — are connected through this ladder. The Torah says that the angels were ascending and descending ‘bo’. Bo can mean “on it”, on the ladder, or “in him” – in Yaakov. That ladder, says the Zohar, is the soul of Yaakov, the bridge between the upper and lower worlds. In every generation, that ladder exists — that ladder is the Jew who, even in a dark world, lives a life that connects earth to heaven.
Today, as our people once again face fear and uncertainty — with threats, divisions, and moral confusion — the vision of Yaakov Avinu speaks directly to us. The world feels fragmented, the night long. But each of us holds a stone. Each mitzvah, each word of prayer, each act of kindness — these are our stones. When we dedicate them to holiness, they unite and become one foundation, the foundation of the Beit HaMikdash itself.
Yaakov awoke and said “Achen yesh Hashem bamakom hazeh va’anochi lo yada’ti — Truly,
May we, like Yaakov Avinu, awaken to find that the very stones of our struggle have become the foundation of holiness — and that even in the most hidden moments, Hashem is in this place.






